Navigating Spousal Support in Premarital Agreements: Options and Considerations

Premarital agreements (prenups) are essential tools for couples who want to establish financial expectations before marriage. One critical component often addressed in these agreements is spousal support.

1. No Mention of Spousal Support

If a premarital agreement does not address spousal support, California's spousal support laws at the time of divorce will apply. Currently, these laws are outlined in Family Code 4320, which considers factors such as earning capacity, the standard of living during the marriage, and the duration of the marriage.

2. Preserving Current Spousal Support Law

Some couples prefer to adhere to the existing spousal support laws in California by explicitly stating this in their premarital agreement. This approach provides certainty, especially if they might move to a state with different spousal support laws or if California's laws change in the future.

3. Waiver of Spousal Support

Couples can choose to waive their right to request spousal support entirely. This waiver can be absolute or conditional, allowing for support only under specified circumstances, such as disability or caring for minor children.

4. Specifying the Amount

To ensure clarity and predictability, some couples specify the exact amount of spousal support in their premarital agreement. Options include:

• A fixed dollar amount

• A gradually reducing amount over time, incentivizing the supported spouse to increase their income

• A formula-based calculation

• A lump sum payment

• A large cash gift included in the agreement

5. Determining the Duration

Couples may set a specific duration for spousal support, such as:

• A fixed number of months or years

• A period based on the length of the marriage (e.g., support for half the length of the marriage)

• An event-triggered duration

6. Modifiability of Spousal Support

Flexibility can be built into the premarital agreement by allowing modifications to the spousal support amount or duration. Couples might specify conditions under which modifications are permitted, such as changes only in certain circumstances (e.g., disability) or in one direction (upward or downward).

7. Sunset Provisions

Sunset provisions can eliminate or modify spousal support terms after a specified period of marriage. For example, a waiver of spousal support might expire after a certain number of years, or be replaced by a different provision.

Understanding and carefully considering spousal support options in premarital agreements can help couples create fair and reasonable arrangements that align with their expectations and future plans. Each couple's situation is unique, and consulting with a family law specialist can provide tailored advice to ensure that your prenup reflects your financial intentions and protects your interests.

What is a Petition?

The Petition is the initial step in starting the legal dissolution process in the court system.

There is no specific requirement regarding when during the Mediation a Petition is filed, but it must be filed in order to ultimately obtain a Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage. The only time frame which may be a consideration is that there is a minimum of six months between the date the Petition is received by the Respondent and the date the parties can be restored to the status of single persons. This can have tax and other implications which may affect the timing of the filing of the Petition.

The Petition, in general terms, sets forth statistical details and requests regarding child custody, support, property, and attorney fees. When the Petition is filed, the parties will be assigned a case number and file within the court system.

A Petition must be served on the "Respondent", the person who did not file the Petition. The easiest method is for someone other than the Petitioner to mail the Petition and Summons, along with a form entitled "Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt", directly to the Respondent instead of personally handing the papers to the Respondent. If the Respondent acknowledges receipt of the Petition by signing and returning the Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt, he/she has been effectively served. In the alternative, the parties can agree that the Summons and Petition will be handed to the Respondent during a four-, five-, six- or seven-way meeting.

Technically, a Response must be served and filed within thirty (30) days of the service date of the Petition. Like the Petition, the Response sets forth the Respondent's information regarding all issues. It is typical during the Mediation for an "open extension" to be granted. This means that the Respondent will not be required to serve and file the Response unless the Petitioner gives notice that a Response will be required.

What is a declaration of disclosure?

Each party in a California divorce is required to share with the other his/her "Declaration of Disclosure." This is just a legal phrase which means that each spouse must share with the other spouse his/her understanding of the marital assets and debts, separate property assets and debts, incomes, and potential opportunities and/or liabilities. There are specific forms which are used to disclose this information. A Final Declaration of Disclosure must be served unless both parties waive the exchange of these documents before the final agreement is signed.

COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT GETTING A DIVORCE IN CALIFORNIA

1. How long will it take for my divorce to be completed? A divorce is not a quick process. The soonest you can terminate your marital status is six months and one day after service of the Petition on the Respondent. Other issues in the case can take a longer or shorter time to resolve. The timing of resolution may depend upon the amount of information to gather, the emotional state of the participants, and the complexity of the issues to resolve. Mediation can result in an agreement in weeks or months. In contrast, litigated cases can take a number of years to conclude.

2. Will I automatically be divorced in six months? In California, you can obtain a dissolution of your marriage (formerly called a divorce) no earlier than six months and one day from the date the Petition is served on the Respondent. If the other issues of the divorce (i.e., property division, support, and parenting issues) are not resolved within this six-month time frame, you are entitled to request a "bifurcated Judgment." This does not happen automatically. Prior to a bifurcation of the marital status, there are some conditions imposed, such as assurance that health insurance coverage will be continued, that both parties have prepared and exchanged their mandatory disclosure forms, and also that the pension plans be “joined.” If you want to terminate your marital status before the other issues of your case are resolved, you must affirmatively ask the court for relief.

3. What is the difference between a "legal separation" and a "divorce"? The main difference between obtaining a judgment of legal separation and obtaining a judgment dissolving the marriage is that marital status is not terminated as part of a legal separation proceeding. Some parties choose to request a legal separation for personal reasons such as religious beliefs or health insurance concerns. They still, however, must address the same issues as parties undergoing a divorce (i.e., support, parenting, division of marital assets and debts).

4. What protects me from having my spouse take all of the money/assets? While a dissolution proceeding is pending, there are certain duties and restraining orders which apply to both spouses. These are found on the back of the Summons. Generally, you are prohibited from doing any of the following without the consent of the other spouse or court order: taking minor children out of state, making changes regarding your insurance, transferring, selling, or concealing assets, and making certain types of changes in your estate plan.

5. How long will I be entitled to receive, or be obligated to pay, spousal support? Under the law, the duration of spousal support is always within the discretion of the court. For marriages of less than ten years, spousal support may be paid for approximately half the length of the marriage. For marriages of longer duration, the support could extend for a much longer period of time.

6. How are spousal support and child support calculated? In Mediation, you and your spouse can determine how you want to calculate support, considering factors like income, expenses, resources available, and the standard of living established during the marriage. In the absence of an agreement, the court uses a "guideline" formula which takes into consideration the respective incomes of each party, the percentage of time the child spends with each parent, and various other factors.

7. What happens to gifts or inheritances or assets I owned prior to marriage? A gift or inheritance is the separate property of the party receiving it and is not considered a community property asset for division in divorce unless intended for both spouses. Separate property also includes assets owned prior to marriage.

8. Do I ever have to appear in court? It is not necessary to appear in court unless you and your spouse cannot settle issues through mediation and require a judge to make decisions about support, parenting, or property division.

9. How do I help our children deal with this process? Talk with your children openly and honestly without disparaging the other parent. Several resources are available to help children deal with the transition of divorce, including programs through local organizations and a variety of helpful reading materials.

10. What is the difference between "legal custody" and "physical custody"? Legal Custody refers to the right and the responsibility to make major decisions relating to the health, education, and welfare of a child. Physical Custody refers to the time periods in which a parent physically cares for the child.

How long does divorce mediation take?

One of the most common questions couples have about divorce mediation is how long the process will take. With Amanda Gordon's mediation services, the timeline can vary based on several factors.

Factors Influencing the Duration of Mediation

• Complexity of the Case: The more complex the marital estate and the issues at stake, the longer the mediation might take.

• Willingness to Compromise: The ability of both parties to negotiate openly and fairly directly impacts the length of mediation.

• Preparation: Being well-prepared with all necessary documents and information can speed up the process.

Typical Timeline with Amanda Gordon

While every case is unique, most of Amanda's mediated divorces reach resolution within a few sessions spread over a couple of months. This is much quicker than traditional divorce proceedings, which can drag on for years.

Conclusion

Divorce mediation with Amanda Gordon is designed to be a swift and efficient process, helping you transition into your new life phase with less emotional and financial strain.